As a little girl growing up Daddy always tried to teach me about “the value of money”.. and this was done in various creative ways! Tidiness and neatness were rewarded with pocket money.. I was encouraged to go “door to door” (only in the building) to collect donations for the NAB Lions Home for the Blind (a form was given from school) and when I professed a desire for a pair of “Roman lace up sandals” the money was collected by doing (once again) door to door market research for some washing powder! Persevering in spite of a number or slammed doors and rude people, it was a real thrill to collect the princely sum of Rs.70 to buy my first very OWN pair of sandals with my very OWN MONEY!!
I was pampered in terms of permissions and friends and
going out but kept on a very tight budget.. and remember my mother’s words so
clearly “When you start earning your own money.. you can spend it however you
like but until then.. you will have t do as we say and decide”.. and that made
me want to really hurry up and start earning my own money!
Daddy used to travel abroad a great deal on work.. and
by the time I was in senior school I wanted “branded” jeans.. and the only “brands”
back then were Wranglers and Levis! He went to Hong Kong and brought me 10 pairs
of jeans.. ONE pair of genuine “branded” Wranglers and the rest “wannabe” pairs
from Stanley Market which was an absolute haven for “branded” copies back then!
I was happy and he was even happier because the he bought the other 9 pairs for
a song!
Daddy always liked being the “cool Dad” and managed to
find reasonable and acceptable ways of indulging me without saying too many “Nos”
and without spoiling me outrageously at the same time! He was earning a
comfortable salary and we lived well but he always discouraged me from buying “branded”
clothes saying I didn’t NEED them.. However he always insisted on buying good
quality footwear because that was a health concern! Totally reasonable and
acceptable by any and all standards? Absolutely!
As I was growing up, he told me one day that when my
personal wealth reached a certain figure (which he never disclosed to me!) he
would allow me to fly “Business Class” and the day THAT happened it was really
exciting! That was also the first trip when he gave me a more generous
allowance of spending money and said I could buy myself a “branded” watch..
explaining to me that since I was going to London I should claim the VAT
Tax-free refund.. and also that since I wore a watch everyday it was an “investment”!
Time went by and I started becoming a discerning
shopper and decided to invest in only top branded bags and watches because they
would last and were genuinely “value for money”.. In keeping with my new beliefs
I bought myself a Cartier Tank watch on my 60th birthday and was
very pleased with myself! I wore it every single day and really loved the
watch! And then.. for no particular reason.. one fine day.. it just stopped working!
I took it back to the company I had bought it from..
they checked it and said the battery had failed and would need to be replaced..
The battery had to come from France so I waited patiently for 3 weeks! All was
well for another six months or so when it unaccountable stopped again! This
time they told me the watch had gotten “demagnetized” so another 3 weeks to fix
it! A couple of months went by and two tiny pins fell out of the strap and the
watch was perching precariously on my wrist.. Thanks to the house renovation..
shifting and my own carelessness (it must be admitted) the spare links were not
to be found so yet another 3 weeks at the workshop!
When it stopped working again a couple of weeks ago I
took it to the workshop and gave the team a piece of my mind.. told them I had
been given the equivalent of a “lemon” and that it was shameful that a Cartier
had to be fixed FOUR times within just two years of purchase.. and if the brand
had ANY integrity and concern for their reputation they should give me a
replacement!
And THIS is where the miracle called Mr. Karan Vaidya
came into my life.. he heard my litany woes and rants patiently.. agreed with
me.. took up this matter with the brand.. fought for me.. negotiated for me..
and this evening.. happily handed over to me a spanking brand new Cartier Tank
watch.. exactly identical to the one I had bought in 2023!
It is always refreshing and reassuring to meet people
who do what they do with passion and integrity and I have been truly blessed to
meet this extremely charming personable and thoroughly professional young man!
I hope to be able to share this blog with him via email.. and thank him once
again for being such a rockstar and amazingly helpful person! Don’t think I
will ever be able to wear my watch without thinking of him and blessing him! He
has truly been my miracle of a good person with a kind heart! God bless you
Karan!
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What an ordeal with the Watch !
ReplyDeleteThey should have replaced it the very first time , I am sure it was under warrantee .You were very fortunate that Mr Karan came to the rescue which you so much deserved after that long wait!
I absolutely love the idea that your parents taught you the value of money .I thoroughly enjoyed ready your interesting story about your upbringing ! You one of a kind Pallavi .
Always like Pallavi to get everything done by her intelligence 😄
ReplyDeleteAn amazing experience shared. What a lesson by your beloved dad. Most fortunate to meet Aa person like Karan . It doesn’t happen by chance but by blessing of someone above to a person well deserved.
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