Sunday, December 31, 2023

WHY WE MUST CELEBRATE THE LAST DAY OF THE YEAR.. today and always!

 The last day of the year is a special day.. perhaps even more special than the first.. and you’re probably wondering why I say this..

All of us are in different moods and doing different things right now.. some are preparing to entertain friends and family.. some are catering for other people’s parties.. some are at the salon getting prettified for a night of revelry and fun.. while some are getting things ready for tomorrow thinking that 31st December isn’t a big deal at all..

The truth of the matter is that today IS a big deal.. but whether or not you choose to perceive it as such is entirely up to you.. In a sense.. with the busy lives that we all lead.. 365 days is almost an era in itself - the year has been full of a variety of experiences for us all.. relationships.. friendships.. achievements at work.. heartbreak.. heartache.. health related challenges and so on..

Amidst all the excitement and ups and downs of the year that has passed.. today is a blessing.. to reflect.. realize and acknowledge that you faced the challenges.. chose your battles and fought them.. reached out to others.. gave a helping hand where it was needed.. did some introspection and made it through the year relatively unscathed..

Nobody has it easy.. we all have our own struggles.. some that are physical and obvious.. and others that are less so.. We try our best to cope.. we reach out to ask for help sometimes.. we suffer in silence sometimes.. and maybe.. we finally begin to understand that the the greatest help comes from our own hearts and souls..

Whenever we look back.. it’s very normal to have made mistakes and to have regrets and wish that we had done things differently perhaps.. mistakes are just stepping stones to learning.. and regrets belong in the past.. don’t carry them along with you into the new year! Try and look back and take stock of the year that has passed in terms of the lessons you learned.. the people that entered and exited your life and why.. what were your happiest times.. and when and where did you witness the greatest amount of personal growth taking place?

Stand tall.. smile at the mirror and be proud of yourself.. you lived 2023 and came out a winner! Celebrate all the beautiful memories tonight and create new ones that you will think of happily on this day next year! Bid a joyful adieu to 2023 and prepare to welcome 2024 with peace in your hearts!

Happy New Year’s Eve to you!!

As always.. thank you so much for reading!!

4 comments:

  1. Navaz
    Agree, more than welcoming the new year, we should reflect on our joys and accomplishments of the past year, and pray we can improve on them in the coming year.
    And no use crying over spilt milk, what's happened, needs to be left behind with lessons learnt then.
    Happy New Year

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  2. Totally agree with your blog. Well done and wish you also happiest and healthy 2024.
    Sudhir and Vina

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  3. Totally agree, happy new year ma'am. God bless.

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  4. So today I feel your pen had honey not ink. Very wise words written from the heart. I went back to reread certain sections to absorb it better. Thank you for all the empowering blogs you post & all the very best for the New Year.

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